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Random Picks from the Archive

The internet shifts like the tide. One moment I am steering through its vast expanse, the next, I am caught in a riptide of information. Here are some pieces I’ve pulled from the archive, insights, stories, and ideas that make me pause, rethink, and see things differently.

About April

My name is April Pagaling, and I’m a writer, poet, and creative AI writing expert. For the last 20 years, I’ve made a living as a writer across different fieldsβ€”journalism, copywriting, social media, ghostwriting, and creative writing. My work spans poetry, historical fiction, essays, and literary criticism, often exploring themes of memory, identity, and cultural inheritance.

This blog is my online journalβ€”a space where everything comes together. From writing and creative insights to food, mom life, and everyday reflections, it’s a record of the stories I live and the ones I create.

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The Unexpected Ways Blogging Changed My Brain

Years ago, I started blogging with the vague idea that it would sharpen my writing. Make me more disciplined. Maybe even build an audience. But I didn’t expect it to rewire my brain. Blogging, as it turned out, isn’t just an act of putting words on a page. It’s an ongoing mental workout, a slow restructuring of the way I

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NCMH. A Visit

A fragmented visit to the National Center for Mental Health. Forms, corridors, and forgotten names. This poem is a record of survival between boxes left unchecked.

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Recipes and other stories

The Perfect Duo of Pancit Lomi and Beef Pares =Beef Pares Lomi

As your friendly neighborhood foodie at Relax LangMom! I am always on the hunt for pairings that please both palate and pocket. My latest discovery? The match made in culinary heaven between those beloved budget bites, Pancit Lomi and Beef Pares. Indulge as I unpack this yummy powerhouse pairing! Let me tell you about these dishes. Pancit Lomi, with its

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Find Simple Joys Perfecting Pandesal with a Baking Mix

#Finding Your Inner Bread with Pandesal Baking Mix Hello, bread enthusiasts! Are you ready to embark on a culinary adventure that will tingle your taste buds and satiate your cravings? The Magic of Pandesal Today, we venture into the world of pandesal, a much-loved Filipino bread famous for its pillow-like softness and soothing warmth. Amidst the ups and downs of

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Asim Kilig: The Ultimate Guide to Filipino Vinegars

One of the most common observations, nay, even criticism, is that the Filipino Cuisine is too sour. While our neighboring countries have their hot and spicy food, we love our sour. We have a love story with our vinegars. Vinegars, with their sharp tang and pungent aroma, is as essential to the Filipino kitchen as the assorted spice lining up

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Amore Alavar Pasta -Clara Ole’s Cream-Based Crab Sauce Ala Zamboanga Style!

Hey gentle readers! April here from RelaxLangMom to share my new favorite invention – Clara Ole Cream-Based Crab Sauce inspired by the rich culinary traditions of Zamboanga. As many of you know, Zamboanga City lays claim to developing what is considered the original Alavar Sauce. This cooking style has deep roots in the unique creole culture that emerged when the

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The Ultimate Pinoy Comfort Food: How to Cook Batchoy Tagalog with Misua

Beyond La Paz: Exploring Batchoy Tagalog Hi mamshies! This is April from Relaxlangmom. If you’re looking for a classic Pinoy Comfort Food, you’ve come to the right place. Today, I’m sharing Batchoy Tagalog with Misua a comforting, heart-warming soup recipe that’s perfect for rainy days, chilly evenings, or when you’re simply craving something that feels like a hug in a

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DIY Binondo Food Tour -Exploring the Historical and Culinary Wonders of Binondo

Hello friends and fellow foodies! It’s your gal April from RelaxLangMom.com here to share an amazing adventure I recently had -a DIY Binondo Food Tour exploring the historic and delicious neighborhood of Binondo in Manila. If you’re a homeschooling mom looking for an activity for the kids or simply itching to swap your spatula for a pair of chopsticks and

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Beef Tenderloin Tips Smothered in Sizzling Garlic-Chili Glaze

Hey everyone, April here from Relax Lang Mom! I hope you’re all doing well and staying warm with this unseasonally still cool weather we’ve been having. I wanted to share a new recipe I tried recently that became an instant family favorite – Beef Tenderloin Tips in Chili Garlic Sauce. It’s something like the Pork Salpicao only it doesn’t have

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