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Random Picks from the Archive

The internet shifts like the tide. One moment I am steering through its vast expanse, the next, I am caught in a riptide of information. Here are some pieces I’ve pulled from the archive, insights, stories, and ideas that make me pause, rethink, and see things differently.

About April

My name is April Pagaling, and I’m a writer, poet, and creative AI writing expert. For the last 20 years, I’ve made a living as a writer across different fieldsβ€”journalism, copywriting, social media, ghostwriting, and creative writing. My work spans poetry, historical fiction, essays, and literary criticism, often exploring themes of memory, identity, and cultural inheritance.

This blog is my online journalβ€”a space where everything comes together. From writing and creative insights to food, mom life, and everyday reflections, it’s a record of the stories I live and the ones I create.

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The Unexpected Ways Blogging Changed My Brain

Years ago, I started blogging with the vague idea that it would sharpen my writing. Make me more disciplined. Maybe even build an audience. But I didn’t expect it to rewire my brain. Blogging, as it turned out, isn’t just an act of putting words on a page. It’s an ongoing mental workout, a slow restructuring of the way I

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NCMH. A Visit

A fragmented visit to the National Center for Mental Health. Forms, corridors, and forgotten names. This poem is a record of survival between boxes left unchecked.

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Recipes and other stories

Easy Pinoy Style Cajun Shrimp

Kick Back and Kick Up Your Feet with Some Cajun Shrimp Tucked away on our island paradise, it’s easy to let the warm tropical breeze lull us into a state of perfect tranquility. But life with kids also means busy weekends and harried weeknights! As parents, we need ways to relax that are simple yet savory. Enter: delicious Cajun shrimp

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Savor Savory Slow-Cooker Roast Beef With Mushroom Sauce on a Stress-Free Sunday

As the sun beats down mercilessly and temps soar to sweltering heights in the Philippines, curling up with a piping pot of hearty stew seems counterintuitive in this steamy season. But never fear – your trusty slow cooker comes to the rescue with an easy, hands-off solution for summer meal prep despite the heat! This lightened-up roast beef with mushroom

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Kinilaw IS NOT Ceviche -Seafood / Fish Kinilaw Recipe

Hi there, food lovers! It’s your favorite blogger, the April of Relax Lang Mom, back with another mouth-watering adventure. Today, we’re diving into the vibrant and tantalizing world of Filipino kinilaw – the delightful cousin of ceviche that’s sure to make your taste buds do a happy dance! Here in the Philippines, we have very distinct kinilaw traditions -similar to

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Easy Buko Pandan Jelly Dessert Recipe for Hot Summer Days

Aloha friends! It’s April from RelaxLangMom! I hope this finds you all well and managing to find moments of calm in your days. Parenting little ones during this time, when the summer hits the country and the heat index going as high as 60Β°C is no easy task, so I’m sending you all virtual hugs. Today I wanted to share

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Filipino Style Air Fried Bangus Teriyaki Recipe

Hello, my little munchkins! Are you ready to kick your flippers up and cook something different for dinner tonight? Then look no further than this Air Fried Bangus Teriyaki – it’ll transport you right to the Philippine beaches without ever leaving the kitchen. The Filipino-style teriyaki sauce allows me to inject bold flavor into simple ingredients without much fuss. Bangus,

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Chicken Shawarma Rice Recipe

Hello everyone! April here from RelaxLangMom.com sharing one of my favorite Middle Eastern cuisine, This is a delicious dish that’s perfect for busy moms and anyone who loves flavorful meals – the Pinoy Chicken Shawarma Rice! Shawarma has become all the rage a few decades back (when I was still in college) and it has become a mainstay on my

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Cream Dory Red Fish Curry Recipe

Let’s make a splash with this flavorful fish curry recipe! As a mom constantly swimming against the current of endless to-do lists, I’m always on the lookout for quick yet crave-worthy meals. This creamy red fish curry starring the much-maligned but never put down – the humble cream dory – is sure to become a staple in your oceanic kitchen

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